Thinking about Divorce?

  • The fear of hurting your kids by making the wrong choice? I’ve felt it. 
  • Terrified to blow up the life you’ve spent years building? I’ve been there. 
  • Scared to spend the next decade only feeling numb? Felt that fear, too. 
  • Fear you’ll make the wrong choice. Keep me stuck for years.

You're not selfish.

And that makes everything more confusing.

Do you feel like you’re carrying the weight of your marriage alone? 

Do you wake up every morning with a pit in your stomach, asking yourself if this is really your life now? 

Are you exhausted from trying to fix everything on your own, pretending you're okay, and in a relationship that looks fine on paper, but feels empty?

You're not alone in these marriage problems. Many women ask themselves, "Should I stay? Should I go?" while feeling trapped in confusion.

Your husband is a good guy. 

The hardest part?

Your pain isn’t betrayal or cruelty. It’s quieter, and something people often don't understand: it’s a “nice guy” marriage that feels emotionally flat. You feel unseen, untouched, and unheard. And the guilt of even questioning your marriage feels like a betrayal.

I see you.

You’re not a bad person for wanting more in your marriage. 

Most of all, you don’t have to walk this path alone.

A fact from a woman who’s been where you are:

You're not a bad mom for wanting more.

You're human and deserve clarity in how to move towards something better, whether you stay or go. 

You need a coach who can guide you to your truth. 

What if your husband isn't willing to do the work, or the connection is just too far gone? 

Marriage counseling has the goal of fixing the relationship. It assumes the marriage can be saved. As a relationship coach, I’m not here to tell you that.  

Because, based on my life & coaching experience…

What if you don't know if you even want to save it? 

What if you're stuck in that harsh cycle of repeatedly asking yourself, "Should I stay or Should I go?” 

You don’t need a counselor telling you what to do.

My job as a relationship and divorce coach isn’t to tell you what to do or make you feel judged for what you feel. I’m here to help you find yourself and be authentic to who you truly are.

This is how a marriage counselor and a marriage coach are different.

A therapist asks you, "How do we fix this?" 
A coach asks you, "What do you need to feel like you again?"

A therapist looks back at your past. 
A coach moves you forward to clarity.

A therapist needs both partners to participate. 
A coach is only for you and the help you need on your own terms.

As a relationship coach, my mission isn't to save your marriage. It’s to save you. To help you regain clarity on what you want, to find yourself again, and to make the most important choice of your life whether to stay or go. 

My goal is to help you navigate your marriage problems from a completely different angle than a counselor:

I'm not a marriage coach who’s only studied this life, I’ve personally lived it. I specialize in marriage help for women at this crossroad. I coach with a depth, tenderness, and clarity that can only come from a woman who's been there herself, too.

I've been the woman barely keeping her marriage together. The mom, terrified to "break up the family", find herself again, while also raising three boys as a single mom. Boys too young to understand why Mom considered divorce. 
 
Those feelings of immense guilt are too familiar to me. I’ve lived with the fear of being trapped in a marriage that looks fine on the outside but feels empty and lonely on the inside. 

I'm your relationship coach, Lisa, and I've walked your path, too.

What did I do to fix it? I…

  • Found my identity and authenticity again 
  • Healed my heartbreak and found healthy love that aligned with me  
  • Created emotional stability to become the woman I always prayed to become 

Now, I guide other women through the journey I walked alone so they don’t have to. More specifically, so you don’t have to. 

How is Lisa Miller Coaching different? 

Most divorce coaches focus on toxic relationships or obvious deal-breakers. As a relationship coach, I work with the most misunderstood kind of marriage problems: the "good guy marriage," where a woman feels emotionally numb, unseen, or alone.

I understand the invisible heartbreak of a silent divorce because I've lived it, too. I guide women with compassion that only comes from firsthand experience on this rough path. Because someone who’s “studied it” will never get it like a woman who’s actually lived it. 

Through my fully proven Clarity framework that I've coached thousands of women through, I teach you to:

Regain clarity on whether to stay or leave with confidence instead of feeling lost in confusion

Understand what you want without guilt, fear, or other people's opinions drowning out your suppressed feelings 

Regulate your nervous system so you can make clear choices instead of impulsive reactions from panic or exhaustion

Rebuild your self-worth and self-trust so you can stop abandoning yourself to keep everyone else comfortable

My approach is a balanced blend of: 

This powerful framework ensures that I never say to you, "Oh, just follow your heart!" or "Just make a pros and cons list." You’ll hear none of that here. 

I don't help you guess what you need in your marriage. I help you know what you need to find yourself again. 

Mindset rebuilding

Practical decision-making tools

Somatic support

Emotional healing

If you're reading this and thinking, "This is exactly what I need," trust that instinct. Your intuition brought you here for a reason.

This coaching is NOT right for you if...

Stuck in emotional limbo and keep asking yourself, "Should I stay or should I go?"

Feel like you're drowning in guilt, confusion, and fear about your marriage problems

Are tired of pretending everything is fine and need guidance and marriage help

Ready to stop abandoning yourself to keep everyone else comfortable

Want support from a relationship coach who's been exactly where you are

Lisa Miller coaching IS right for you if you… 

You're certain you want to stay and just need marriage repair tools (counseling would be better)

You're looking for someone to decide for you

You're not ready to do the inner work required for real and long-term transformation

This is what’s possible for you…

You don't have to walk through confusion, heartbreak, or a quiet divorce alone.

I'm here to help you regain clarity, your self-worth, and find a life that feels aligned, peaceful, and authentic to you.

You deserve clarity without chaos. Confidence without guilt. A life you're thriving in, whether that’s redesigning your marriage for the better or finding yourself again after ending it.

Waking up without that knot in your stomach and feeling alive again. 

Feeling 100% confident in every choice you make, knowing it’s the right one. 

Finally reclaiming the best version of you that’s been ignored for too long.

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If you're ready for judgment-free and agenda-free support as you navigate whether to stay or leave, my 1:1 coaching program is designed for you. Together, we'll work through the guilt, fear, and confusion to help you make the best decision for your life and family.

You'll regain your self-trust, calm your nervous system, and reconnect with the strong woman inside you who’s been ignored for too long.

Work directly with me in an intimate group setting. You’ll leave with a clear vision and a road map for unstoppable growth.


1:1 coaching

Join me for a transformational retreat where you'll step away from the noise of daily responsibilities and reconnect with yourself in a safe and supportive space. 

Surround yourself with other women who understand exactly what you're going through because they’re going through it, too. 

Radiant Energy retreats

I speak about navigating silent divorces, rebuilding your self-worth, and finding clarity within chaos. If you're looking for a speaker who delivers depth, wisdom taught from firsthand experience, and deep empathy–let's connect.

Speaking engagements

Here’s how we can work together 

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  • Understanding Your Emotions: Learn how to identify and process your feelings, helping you to approach your decision with a clear mind.
  • Evaluating Your Relationship: Gain tools to assess the health of your marriage and determine what’s truly at stake.
  • Exploring Your Options: Dive into the benefits and challenges of both staying and leaving, empowering you to make an informed choice.
  • Creating Your Path Forward: Develop a personalized action plan, no matter what decision you make–you feel supported and ready for the next chapter of your life.

value $197!

You deserve to be happy, even if that means staying in your marriage. Once you sign up, you’ll have immediate access to start getting clarity now. 

If you're feeling uncertain about your relationship, you're not alone. This one-hour workshop is designed specifically for you to gain clarity, insight, and confidence in your next steps.

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What you'll discover:

$27

Should I Stay or Go?

1-Hour Workshop

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My Divorce Survival Guide is the grounded support I created after living through my own divorce 9yrs ago for the woman who needs clarity, stability, and direction when everything feels like it’s falling apart.

Divorce Survival Guide

  • Calm your emotions when panic, guilt, or grief hits
  • Organize finances and legal steps without overwhelm
  • Show up for your kids with strength instead of survival mode
  • Learn how to Co-parent with compassion
  • Make clear, grounded decisions even when emotions are high

$12

Inside, you’ll learn how to:

35-Page PDF

  • Stop spiraling, freezing, or people-pleasing during hard conversations
  • Understand your role in conflict and break repeating patterns
  • Speak your truth without blaming, justifying, or over-explaining
  • Stay grounded instead of getting pulled into guilt, fear, or emotional chaos
  • Prepare for conversations about disconnection, boundaries, or divorce with clarity and care

How to Have The Talk is a gentle, step-by-step guided workbook designed to help you communicate hard truths with calm, clarity, and compassion. 

If you’re lying awake rehearsing conversations in your head wondering how to say what you really feel without blowing everything up or shutting yourself down this workbook was made for you.

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Inside this workbook, you’ll learn how to:

$12

How to Have The Talk Guided Workbook

You deserve peace, confidence, and to feel like you again

You're braver than you think you are even if you don’t feel like it yet. Most importantly, you’re not alone. 

Let me guide you on this journey with guidance, support, and help you find yourself again.