I couldn't spend the next decade pretending to be okay. Burying a truth inside me that was screaming every day to be heard. I realized that my silence was just self-abandonment disguised as peace.
So I did the hardest thing I've ever done: I chose myself.
I know what it feels like to be lost in a marriage that looks healthy
But I slowly woke up to a quiet truth that I was denying for too long: I had to stop abandoning myself.
For years, I was the woman struggling to hold everything together. The mom who gave empty smiles at school events while hiding an ache deep inside that no one saw. The wife trying to fix a marriage not technically broken, but feels flat and lonely in every way possible.
I was married to a nice guy. And that made everything harder.
There wasn’t an “obvious” betrayal or a black and white reason to leave. Just a quiet, empty life that looked fine through the window. But inside, I felt unseen, unheard, and the guilt of feeling unhappy was suffocating me every day.
How could I even think about leaving when he wasn't abusive? What kind of person questions a marriage to a good guy who's trying?
The journey that changed everything
Best of all, I became the woman I always prayed to one day become.
Along the way, I discovered a truth about myself: I never want another woman to walk this path alone. I want to be her guiding hand towards something better than yesterday.
Learned how to regulate my nervous system when panic and guilt were swallowing me whole
Rebuilt my self-worth and healed my inner wounds that had been ignored
Leaving my marriage wasn't about ending a relationship. It was about finding me again.
Here’s what I did to achieve that. I…
Learned to trust myself again after years of second-guessing every choice I made
Successfully raised three boys through heartbreak and uncertainty
Created stability and healed my relationship with myself
Built a life that let me find healthy and aligned love that let me thrive even more
I guide you as a relationship and divorce coach, offering compassion, clarity, and truth that only comes from someone who's been there and felt exactly what you’re feeling.
Why I do what I do for moms and women navigating emotional divorce like you
- Is a good mom who’s exhausted from pretending to be okay and in a relationship that feels disconnected or heavy inside her
- Has been carrying the weight of her marriage for too long, but feels guilty for even thinking about leaving Is married to a good guy but still feels disconnected, not heard, or unseen
- Feels stuck in emotional limbo and scared to make the wrong choice
- Just needs a guiding hand for her next step, whether that’s staying or leaving
My mission is to help moms and women navigate the most misunderstood kind of marriage problems because I've personally lived it.
I became a relationship and divorce coach because I understand the heartbreak of a silent divorce. I know what it feels like to be stuck and terrified of making the wrong decision while carrying the heavy weight of ensuring everyone's happiness… except your own.
Most divorce coaches focus on toxic relationships or obvious deal-breakers. While I naturally understand why these coaches are needed, I aim to work with women whose marriages don't fall into black and white categories.
How my tried-and-proven approach works
I don't believe in the "follow your heart" approach or the cold "make a pros and cons list" method. You’ll find none of that here, but instead, relationship coaching that goes much deeper.
In my experience, you’ll only find real clarity when you have both emotional healing and the practical tools to empower it.
I don't push you to leave or pressure you to stay. My goal is to help you hear your truth, clearly and lovingly, without shame or judgment.
My work uniquely blends:
Proven clarity frameworks
That guide you toward the decision that's right for you and your family
Communication tools
To help you navigate difficult conversations with clarity and compassion
Mindset shifts
That help you release guilt and reclaim permission to choose yourself
Nervous system regulation
So you can make decisions from a grounded place instead of fear or panic
Finding yourself
So you remember who you are beyond wife and mom
Inner child healing
To address the patterns and wounds that keep you stuck
Somatic practices
To help you reconnect with your body's wisdom and release stored emotional pain
I found a peaceful life, healed my heartbreak, and found healthy love when I was ready again. My life is proof that healing and joy after heartbreak are more than possible it's available to you, too.
I'm living proof of what's possible.
How I’m different from other relationship coaches
You get both the deep inner work and the real decision-making structure you need to move forward with grounded confidence again
I blend emotional healing with practical clarity.
I know the invisible heartbreak of feeling alone in a relationship that looks fine at first glance. I know the guilt, confusion, and fear that come with questioning a marriage when there's no obvious “villain” to fight against.
I understand the "good guy marriage."
Everything I teach comes from real-life experience, not a textbook. I coach with a depth and understanding that only comes from someone who's walked your exact path.
I've lived this journey.
I'm not here to tell you what to do or judge you. I'm here to help you trust yourself to make the best choice for you and your family.
